Tuesday's Thoughts

The famous line from the ending song from the movie Yentl applies to me every day, "The more I learn, the more I realize the less I know."

Humility, to me, seems to be the key to really learning and growing. I find that the second I'm sure about something it doesn't take long until I find that I was either wrong or there may be a better way. I've found that in a lot of things in life there is no "right" way to do things. Yeah, sure, there are truths in the gospel that never change and are stead-fast and solid in my life, but I'm talking about day-to-day choices. What do I wear today? Which groceries will I buy? How, exactly, will I discipline my children? It's those daily choices that change frequently.

Some things remain the same like what shampoo I use or which TV Shows I watch, but those things even change over time. There's always a new and improved whitening toothpaste out there, or my favorite show may be cancelled after just a couple months. ( Pushing Daisies)

I guess, the point I'm trying to make is that I've tried to learn to be open to change and new ideas. And when my schedule or routine gets interrupted by, for example, having to go pick up a sick kid from school when I had planned something else entirely, that I should just go with the flow and not let it frustrate me. And I shouldn't be so hard-headed and think I'm right all the time cuz at least 75% of the time I'm wrong. I actually like being wrong sometimes cuz it's the only way my stubborn self can learn.

Being open to new ideas does not mean that I compromise my principles and/or morals. Those are rock solid and will never change. But, as long as I have them for a solid foundation I feel like I'm free to explore the world around me and soak up all the good there is to experience in this crazy world.

How Well My Kids Know Me

Okay, I stole this from Erin cuz I thought it was too cute. The only problem I ran across was Faith, my 3 yr old, mostly wanted to be silly so she kept giving me silly answers. Other than that my kids answers were pretty insightful and most of them true. BTW I asked them all separately so, if answers match, it's just a coincidence.

Chris - 12 yrs

Kaydee - 10 yrs

Aimee - 9 yrs

Allison - 5 yrs

Faith - 3 yrs

1. What is something your mom always says to you?

Chris: Do your chores

Kaydee: Go do your chores

Aimee: Do your Chores & Homework (Wow, I must be some kind of slave driver)

Allison: Go to Walmart

Faith:  No Toilet Paper

2. What Makes Mom Happy?

Chris: When the chores are done

Kaydee: Quiet (YEP!!)

Aimee: Her mom

Allison: Do my chores

Faith: Dad

3. What Makes Mom Sad?

Chris: When the chores aren't done

Kaydee: Screaming Children 

Aimee: Sometimes Dad

Allison: I don't do the right things

Faith: Bear

4. How does your mom make you laugh?

Chris: When she messes up. (Oh, how sweet)

Kaydee: Tickles Me

Aimee: Doing Funny Things

Allison: Tickle Me

Faith: Ha Ha Ha

5.What was your mom like as a child?

Chris: The same

Kaydee: Don't Know

Aimee: She looked like me

Allison: She liked to play

Faith: She liked to play

6. How old is your mom?

Chris: 37

Kaydee: 35

Aimee: 36 (yep)

Allison: 36

Faith: Foop

7. How tall is your mom?

Chris: 5'2"

Kaydee: 5'2"

Aimee: 4ft

Allison: 5 inches

Faith: (she put her hand above her head)

(I'm actually 5'4". They all kept making me shorter. I guess I seem to be shrinking since Chris is almost as tall as me now.)

8. What is her favorite thing to do?

Chris: Watch movies

Kaydee: Play on computer

Aimee: Sleep

Allison: Play on computer

Faith: bloom bloom

(all of the above)

9. What does your mom do when you're not around?

Chris: Don't know,I'm not here

Kaydee: Watch TV (sometimes)

Aimee: sleep and play oncomputer

Allison: go to store and buy popcorn and candy and soda

Faith: la la la la (all the time! LOL!!)

10. What is your mom really good at?

Chris: crocheting

Kaydee: writing poems

Aimee: I don't know

Allison: making stuff out of yarn

Faith: bee boop ba

11. What is your mom not very good at?

Chris: being organized (true)

Kaydee: doing flips (very true)

Aimee: doing the splits (extremely true)

Allison: don't Aimee (?)

Faith: carrots

12. What does your mom do for a job?

Chris: stay at home

Kaydee: stay-at-home-mom

Aimee: stay at home

Allison: movie theatre ( I worked there, but quit)

Faith: clean up the house

13. What is your mom's favorite food?

Chris: popcorn

Kaydee: spaghetti (yep)

Aimee: soup

Allison: soup

Faith: crunch crunch

14. What makes you proud of your mom?

Chris: she gets stuff done

Kaydee: she takes care of us

Aimee: giving her hugs

Allison: kiss

Faith: musuna (?)

15. Who would your mom be if she were a cartoon character?

Chris: Donald Duck

Kaydee: Mickey Mouse

Aimee: Dafnee from Scooby Doo

Allison: Dora

Faith: roar

16. What do you and your mom do together?

Chris: watch movies

Kaydee: talk

Aimee: play games

Allison: play duck duck goose

Faith: sing

(all true)

17. How are you and your mom the same?

Chris: ADHD (true)

Kaydee: both like TV

Aimee: we look the same when she was younger

Allison: both have short hair

Faith: sh

18. How are you different then your mom?

Chris: she's a girl, I'm a boy

Kaydee: I can do flips and mom can sit on the couch

Aimee: hair

Allison: different noses

Faith: put away

19. What is your mom's favorite place to go?

Chris: movies

Kaydee: the movies

Aimee: home

Allison: buy some food

Faith: the wasa (?)

20. How do you know your mom loves you?

Chris: does stuff for us

Kaydee: she takes care of us, feeds us and comforts us

Aimee: she hugs and plays with me

Allison: because I do

Faith: hugs

Denver Trip

The cousins waiting for lunch

Chris, Darren & Michael playing video games
Kaydee, Daurie and Aimee
Maleena, Allison & Faith
Fruity water at our hotel in Denver. It was a container filled with water, ice and fruit. It was yummy!!

Denver Trip

The Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. in Denver, Co

A shrimp from the BGSC in Denver
Outside of the Denver Convention Center where Chris' State Spelling Bee was held. Only 33 of 264 kids passed the written test to go on to the oral test. Chris was not one of them. It was a very hard test. I had never even heard of most of the words. The same day they had the spelling bee they also had a huge volleyball tournament and tryouts for So You Think You Can Dance.
This was in our hotel room the school paid for in Denver.
Faith, Allison and Maleena at Darren's house in Colorado Springs

The Park

This is all the kids on little horses at the park. The pics kinda blurry cuz it was from my phone.

Saturday Night Movie

This is the first time my kids have been quiet all day. We had a pretty busy day today. We went to Kaydee's first wrestling tournament where she got second place in her weight class. Yeah, Kaydee! After we had been there for several hours we came home and did the typical Saturday "get ready for Sunday" stuff. Now the kids are chilling out watching Sky High before they go to bed.

Moody Girl

The many moods of Faith!

Sick

I don't have a picture because, believe me, you don't want to see me. One of the things I don't like about winter is getting sick. I was glad to actually avoid it all winter until March, but now I'm pretty miserable. I don't know exactly what I have, but it's some kind of head, throat, nose thing. All I know is that I'm pretty miserable and some days I feel like my head's going to explode and other days I can't even talk. I hope everyone is feeling better than I am right now.